The 53rd Academy Awards were unusual before they even began. Originally scheduled for March 30, 1981, they were postponed a day because of the attempted assassination of President Ronald Reagan. But, as host Johnny Carson noted, the show did go on, and the big winner was Ordinary People, beating out Coal Miner's Daughter, The Elephant Man, Raging Bull, and Tess for Best Picture and taking home trophies for first-time director Robert Redford, screenwriter Alvin Sargent, and Best Supporting Actor Timothy Hutton.

Adapted from Judith Guest's 1976 novel, Ordinary People is an elegantly restrained drama about the Jarrett family, shattered by tragedy after an accident leaves their elder son dead and their surviving son crippled by grief. Mary Tyler Moore and Donald Sutherland starred as parents who once seemed to have it all, and Hutton, in his first major film role, broke America's collective heart as Conrad, the son left behind. Judd Hirsch costarred as the therapist who helps him, and a young Elizabeth McGovern played Conrad's love interest.

NO ORDINARY STAR

In the 1970s, few actors had more clout than Robert Redford. But by his early 40s he was seeking a new challenge.

ROBERT REDFORD: [Director] I was producing things I was acting in, but I had never directed and I felt it was time. I was looking for a piece of material that was about behavior and feelings. When I read Judith Guest's book, I thought, This is it.

MOORE: I think, like all actors, I was open to taking on new challenges, including those outside my comfort zone. But this was not why I took the role. The appeal was the powerful story with its vivid characterizations—including a family dynamic I could relate to. Again, I note, it was Robert Redford!

REDFORD: I thought Richard Dreyfuss should play the psychiatrist, so I called him and asked. He said, "I can't talk right now, I'm having a nervous breakdown." So I said, "Well, I won't bother you. Hope it all works out." Then I went to Donald Sutherland. He said, "I don't want to play the psychiatrist, but I'd love to play the husband."

DONALD SUTHERLAND: [Calvin Jarrett] I went into his office—he was seeing me to kind of audition for the part of the psychiatrist. But I wanted to play the father. The marriage reminded me of one that I was familiar with. So [Redford] thought about it, and then he cast me. He said, "It was either you or Gene Hackman."

REDFORD: I saw this TV show, Taxi, that had Judd Hirsch in it, and he had this rapid-fire delivery. I thought, "Wait a minute: This would be great because he seems like he's a little nuts." I thought the psychiatrist should appear a little crazy.

JUDD HIRSCH: [Dr. Berger] I asked if I could read the book, and he sends me the book. I said, "You gonna change the title?" He said no. I said, "Good."

TIMOTHY HUTTON: [Conrad Jarrett] I guess the casting director had seen a TV movie I had done called Friendly Fire with Carol Burnett and Ned Beatty. They had cast a pretty wide net for [Conrad]. There was a total of five or six auditions; the fifth one was with Redford. He was sitting behind a desk and was eating a chicken salad. There was something that made you instantly relax when you were around him. I remember how clear he was as a communicator—not just direct in what he had to say but in pulling things out of you. From the beginning he had a great ability to be very specific and go deeper at all times.

GUEST: He asked my opinion on things. He'd send me drafts of the script with a note: Judy, feel free to wail. I never felt like wailing because I always felt like he was listening to me. I thought Timothy Hutton was perfect, just perfect.

HUTTON: The casting process went on for a while—I didn't know enough then to know that six auditions is quite a lot. Redford asked me to come down for this screen test. I walked on the stage, and it was Ann-Margret [as Beth].

REDFORD: Elizabeth McGovern was about to go to Juilliard and so was going to turn [the film] down. I said, "Can you just hold on for a couple of weeks?"

ELIZABETH MCGOVERN: [Jeannine Pratt] I was just this young kid, and his attitude was "Life is as important as the movies," and he was right. In retrospect, I see what an unusual man he is and what an unusual situation it was.

HUTTON: I think he was considering Marie Osmond if Liz McGovern couldn't do it.

STUDIO REJECTION

REDFORD:At that particular time there was no interest in the film. I’d gone to a couple of studios and they were not interested. They thought it was decidedly uncommercial. Also, the lead character was a woman who appeared dark and negative—they didn’t want to have anything to do with that. Especially because it was going to be Mary Tyler Moore. No studio wanted it.

Barry Diller: [Paramount Pictures] I haven’t the vaguest idea why [other studios passed]. I’ve never cared what anyone else thought.

REDFORD: Barry Diller was the head of Paramount at the time. The people under him were Michael Eisner and Jeffrey Katzenberg and they didn’t like it at all. Yet Diller, who was above them, was. That surprised me. He said, go ahead and do it.

DILLER: It was a great script. It really wasn’t hard once Redford—who, by the way, in addition to everything else, is a great salesman—once Redford said he wanted to direct it, it was yes, of course.

REDFORD: He said, go away and make it we won’t bother you. That was the big gift that I got—the support of Barry Diller to make this film.

PARENT TRAP

As Conrad begins to heal, the cracks in Beth and Calvin's marriage become impossible for Calvin to ignore—in particular, Beth's inability to show Conrad affection. Audiences viewed Beth as the ultimate icy mother, but Moore never saw her that way.

MOORE: Beth was a victim. I shared this with Redford, who told me in our first meeting that the nonrelationship Beth had with Conrad was the mirror of the noninteraction he had with his own father. Beth made me think of my father and his rigidity. I imagine a bit of him in me—along with my own tendency to want everything to be perfect—set the table for bringing Beth to life on film.

SUTHERLAND:The first day Bob and I sat together, I had this mustache. I am fundamentally an unattractive person, and the more hair I can get on my face, the better. He said, "Calvin wouldn't have a mustache." I had brought an electric razor in my pocket, so when he went to the john, I just went bzzzzzz.

REDFORD: Donald could do anything. He was going to have a meltdown during the film where it was going to be this great dramatic moment when he has to tell his wife he's not sure he loves her anymore. He told me he was looking forward to it, and I think he got so wired up for it—when the moment came, he really let loose. I felt maybe it was too much. When the film was finished, I felt it was too much. Here's where Donald is great: I said, "Donald, I want you to look at this." We looked at the scene together, and he said, "You're absolutely right. Can I do it again?" So we went back to the location and shot that moment and recut it into the film.

SUTHERLAND: Bless his heart, no. What happened was we were sitting looking at rushes, all of us, and I was humiliated by myself. They were all happy with it. The day after, I said, "Guys, I've really screwed you. I've done the stupid old actor's bulls---thing." Out of context it was well performed, but it was wrong. Three months after we stopped shooting, [Redford] phoned me and said, "I think you were right. Can we do it again?" I said, "Absolutely." Redford stood in for Mary because she wasn't there.

HUTTON: Every step of the way, Redford was incredibly thoughtful toward me. He arranged a screening on the Paramount lot and set it up for me to watch. You don't just see and feel the movie, you see and feel every day you worked on it. I went back to my car, and I just kind of sat in the parking lot for a couple of hours. It connected the line between the guy who was pacing the hotel room, wondering if he was doing okay, to the guy sitting in the car on the Paramount lot, feeling like you did do okay. It wasn't amazing euphoria; it was more like my breathing shifted for the first time since I started working on the movie.

BOUND FOR GOLD

Ordinary People was released on Sept. 19, 1980, and went on to earn $55 million. Heading into the Oscars, it had six nominations, including nods for Hutton, Moore, Hirsch, and Redford, as well as for Best Picture.

HUTTON: Somehow I managed to swing tickets for myself, my mom, and my date, Diane Lane. As we were taking our seats, Judd leaned in to me and said, "Remember, it's enough just to win." [Laughs]

REDFORD: I never dreamed in a million years that it would have the result that it did. I kind of thought it would be buried.